By Clare Coleman, Nell’s daughter
We would like to thank the committee for selecting and honoring our mom at this year’s 2026 GAA Memorial Tournament. She would not only be thrilled with the selection, but extremely proud to be mentioned alongside the previous winners, all of whom she knew very well and all who were great representatives and pillars of the Irish American community in the Cleveland area.
Ellen “Nell” Buckley was born in March 1934 in Kenmare, County Kerry, to Peter and Margaret McCarthy, one of six children in a close-knit family that included Steven, Claire, Anna, Florry and Philomena. Growing up in the beautiful countryside of Kerry helped shape the spirit that defined Nell throughout her life—independent, energetic, and full of joy. She often described herself as a tomboy in her younger days, happiest outdoors and never afraid of a little adventure.
One of her favorite childhood memories was riding on the handlebars of her father’s bicycle as they made their way up the road to Fustane to care for their farm animals. Those early days also revealed her competitive side. Nell loved sports and especially enjoyed playing camogie, throwing herself wholeheartedly into any game she tried, like softball and broomball.
At the age of eighteen, Nell left Kenmare for Dungarvan, County Waterford to work in Nolan’s Chemist Shop. It was there that fate intervened when she met the love of her life, Frank Buckley. Frank was playing Gaelic football at the time for the hometown Brickey Rangers, and the meeting marked the beginning of a lifelong partnership built on devotion, laughter, and shared adventure.
Frank and Nell soon set their sights on a new life in the United States, marrying in 1960 and beginning their American chapter together. They built a beautiful family and were blessed with two children, Jim and Clare, as well as five grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.
Nell’s love for her family was boundless. She adored Frank with all her heart, and her children and grandchildren were the center of her world.
She never missed an opportunity to celebrate the important moments in their lives—birthdays, graduations, promotions, and especially the religious milestones of her grandchildren. Whether through a thoughtful note, a small gift, or simply her presence, Nell made sure every occasion felt special.
Nell had a deep love for people and for life itself. She enjoyed being surrounded by friends and family and was always ready for the next gathering or celebration.
Travel was another great passion—she loved seeing new places and experiencing new things, always eager to be on the move. In many ways she was a true rolling stone, happiest when there was somewhere to go and someone to meet along the way.
Faith played an important role in Nell’s life. She was deeply involved in her parish, St. Mary of the Immaculate Conception, where she served as a Eucharistic minister.
She was also a proud, lifelong Pioneer and held a strong belief in the power of prayer. That faith was a constant source of strength and guidance throughout her life.
Though she embraced her life in America, Nell’s heart never strayed far from Ireland. She loved everything Irish—its music, traditions, sports, and people. She was fiercely proud of her Kerry roots and remained a passionate supporter of Kerry Gaelic football.
Irish music could bring her instantly to life; the moment the music started, her shoes would be kicked off and she would be dancing. Singing and dancing were among her greatest joys, and she had a special gift for getting everyone around her involved.
Can you identify the others? A super-secret special Freebie to the first person who correctly names the men next to Sean Boland, and the woman in white on the iIrish Facebook page post, “May Issue Has Arrived.”
She loved attending events at the West Side Irish American Club and was rarely one to miss a weekend gathering. Playing the traditional Irish card game 25 was one of her favorite pastimes, and she relished the camaraderie and laughter that came with it.
Initially Nell worked as a secretary at General Electric, but spent the majority of her working career at Kirby Manor, a senior living community, where she built many friendships and fond memories. She could also be found on an occasional Saturday working at bar that she and Dad owned, The Idle Way Lounge on Puritas Avenue, just a stone’s throw away from Gunning Park, where she played her beloved Camogie.
Among her proudest and happiest experiences were singing both the American and Irish National Anthems at the start of Cleveland’s St. Patrick’s Day Parade—a moment that beautifully captured the dual pride she carried for both of her homes.
Above all else, Nell Buckley had a gift for bringing people together. Her warmth, laughter, and enthusiasm could light up any room. She had a natural ability to encourage others to join in, celebrate, and enjoy life just a little more. Her spirit lives on in the generations she nurtured, the friendships she treasured and the vibrant community she helped build. Her legacy is one of joy, devotion, and an unwavering love for family, faith, and Ireland.
Ciarrai Abu Mom!
Jim Buckley and Clare Coleman
